When

7pm JST Monday 8 February 2021

Where

Zoom (register)

Details

This week in our Men’s Mastermind Group we’ll be looking at our ‘TRUTH’ and our truth in relation to our Calling.

In order to move through life in a more clean and clear way, they’re are times we have to state hard truths to people in our lives .. and sometimes to our selves.

fortunately we don’t always have to SAY our truths in a harsh manner.

We have choices for how we speak our truths.

We can speak our truths as if with a sword or as gently as a feather - depending on whom we are speaking to - and how they are able to hear us.

does this truth resonate with you?

– how do we – or do we not - speak our truths to ourselves?

Remember – we each have MANY internal voices - and we can choose how to express these to others as well as speak to ourselves –

there may be inner voices masquerading as truth that no longer serve us … or may never have been true in the first place.

how do you distinguish these truths and non truths when they appear?

join us as we explore our truths and how to express them cleanly to others

tomorrow night February 8th at 7pm Japan time

Great conversation tonight on the variety of things which inspire us and bring joy to life. Some of our callings are large projects while some are simple and can be done on a regular basis.

What lights you up? What brings joy into your life?

The question isn’t whether or not we’re creating a legacy.

The question is whether or not we’re actively and consciously creating the legacy that we want.

In order to create a powerful legacy with your life, you need to decide what contribution you want to make to the world.

What legacy do you want to leave with your life?

Join us in Bold Life Brotherhood to create your legacy.

Tonight was our first meeting in the month of looking at SOVEREIGNTY. We looked at ways we give way to our unconscious reactions and selected likely opportunities to make conscious choices that work better for us better in the long term.

For me, I talked about my unconscious-driven nit-picking of Lin buying things we don’t need. It’s her money and it’s not worth a fight to save money.

Tonight in our Bold Life Brotherhood meeting, we looked at ways to improve our connection with loved ones on one of many possible different ways of being intimate:

• physically
• sexually
• emotionally
• intellectually
• spiritually
• financially

Men in the circle chose bold actions to take in the next week, deepening at least one component of intimacy in one important relationship in their lives.

In the third week on CONNECTION, we focused on our connections with other people. What do you think they SHOULD be doing? How might these ideas point to things that you can do instead of changing the other person?

Quite some great insights tonight. I discovered ways in which I am not taking care of myself, and some ways I can enjoy my work more.

• What do you think your favorite person SHOULD do?

• What does this “SHOULD” point to you doing (for) yourself?

Four men attended last night, so we had balanced numbers for the breakout rooms. I was glad to hear the processes were new experiences for them to bring their awareness to the present moment.

The verbal version of automatic writing brought interesting insights; several of the men will take time to practice this again during the week. It reminds me of my days in RC (Reciprocal Counseling).

Thanks to my friend Will Ewing for his words about BLB:

For me the Bold Life Brotherhood has been a gentle journey into
self-awareness. It has helped me to resolve some of my
long-standing personal issues and has been a stepping stone for me
to communicate better with my family.  I'm very grateful to Rob
and his steadfast dedication to helping the world evolve in a
positive manner.

- Will Ewing

Tonight in Bold Life Brotherhood, we described our realtime felt experience in our bodies. e.g. “I feel the slight pressure in my fingertips as I push these plastic shapes on the keyboard. I feel the intake of air filling my lungs and stomach stretching as I breathe.”

Each man spoke for a minute, narrating his felt experience. Then we amped it up for each of two rounds:

1. Close your eyes and do the same, share what is happening for you now..

2. Feeling inside your body, inside your skin, narrate what are you experiencing in realtime (not what your skin feels, but what your internal parts feel)

Quite a cool experience!

Great meeting tonight with a new man in the circle. We rewrote some of the messages from our inner critics and even sent the inner critics packing! Great rewrites such as

“you can’t do it” —> “It’s already done!”

“you don’t know what to do” —> “I trust my creativity”

What are some ways you’d rewrite messages from your inner critic?

Great circle tonight with 8 men in attendance (including myself). We created stretches toward bringing blissful purpose into our lives.

Exercise:

Write down all the things that light you up.

• What is your #1 thing that lights you up?
• What bold action can you take to bring more of this into your life?

Reply via contact and I may add it below!

To the Bold Life!