This was gonna be a blog entry but for now just a journal.
Last night was when I let M say “I have a charge against X Y and Z, and I don’t want to look at it.”
I know the charge is about M, not them, so no worries.
I learned it’s important to have M verbally confirm he knows it’s about him, not them.
Woulda “saved” 60 or 70 minutes haha.