Entries this day: mid-life-opportunity

mid life opportunity

(written 21:47 Wednesday 06 September 2023 JST)

They say crisis and opportunity use the same kanji in Chinese.

Lin and I are both much happier being separated. I cannot say divorced yet, but we're definitely headed that direction.

I stayed married for a while because I didn't want to get divorced. I thought staying together was the right thing to do.

I don't know when things changed, but even a couple of years ago Mr Magnet was like "why are you two together?" My only answer then was related to an ego-centric idea that I will never get divorced!

Similar to being headed to the big D, I am thinking of leaving VA and even JP. Could be as early as this year.