On a bus with lots of people including two people who were co-workers. One was a reporter who had been standing all day. She said to the other as she got off the bus that her feet hurt and she really wanted a foot massages. After she got off the bus, I asked him if I could have her phone number to give her a massage. He was like, "no" and left it at that because it was the expected answer. Then I go, "well, can I teach you how to give foot massage?" He goes, "no; I don't have time for that." After a while, he said, "let me give you some feedback." I said "okay, I'm turning off my pone" as I turned off my phone; I legitimately wante to hear it. He said, "you're bugging me at work about massage when I have to work." And I go okay, "I undersand you're busy, and I be you don't want to learn how to give foot massage." He goes, "no; I said I don't have time for it.." He goes, "okay join me for a reiki, shaanism, massage, I-group, programming, painting, electron, barbershop, chromosome, motorized robotics, public speaking class." I go "okay, When is it?" He goes, "you have to teach it." "Well, you said join before. Anyway I don't know all those things so I cannot teach them all; your scenario isn't analagous to mine, but I get your essential point; You aren't interested in learning foot massage to give to her."