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8:45am Sunday 30 September 2001

Just spent my first night in the guest bedroom, starting my journey with myself. Wende slept upstairs in the master bedroom.

Plan is for us to research selling the house, and if we won't make some dollars on it now, then we'll keep it and one of us will live here and the other will live in an apartment. We each are clear that we're not in this to make money off the other, but I am clear that I am thankful that this house will be an investment for us; that we will together make money when we sell it.

Tomorrow I get a raise at work; that may affect how we choose to handle this. I will make sure that my SEP (IRA thing) will continue to receive the maximum amount of dollars that it can.

I'm gonna get something to eat now.

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30 September 2001

Wende and I are separating. We are both sad, and
continuing to communicate and stuff as we split up.  

You may know that I have never lived alone (and not
been seriously dating someone) since I got out of high
school.  I'm choosing to live alone and be flat single
and not available for relationship for a while.  (like
a year at very minimum)

We intend to not sell the house right now; one of us
will live in it and the other will be in an apartment.
 It appears that I'll be living in the house, but
that's not clear yet.   For now, we will live as
roommates (I'm in the downstairs bedroom) until we
save up a few dollars so she can move out.